Congratulations on the wedding invite from your friend or family member! What an exciting time. If you’ve never been to one, you might be wondering what to wear to a Catholic wedding. As a wedding photographer who specializes in Catholic weddings, I can tell you that dressing appropriately is a big part of respecting the sacredness of the service, the couple, and the Church. Let’s dive into some tips on how to dress in a way that honors the occasion while still feeling confident and yourself!

Why It Matters What to Wear to a Catholic Wedding

You may wonder why it matters what is worn in the Catholic parish. In the Bible we read, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, in order to make her holy by cleansing her with the washing of water by the word, so as to present the church to himself in splendor, without a spot or wrinkle or anything of the kind—yes, so that she may be holy and without blemish.” Ephesians 5:25-27 Paul would not have compared marriage between man and woman to Christ and the church if it wasn’t of utmost importance. In these verses we read that marriage is a sacrament and it leads us to holiness. That is why it is so important to respect the ceremonies inside a sacred place.

 

 

Dress Modestly

Catholic weddings are always held inside a church whether it is a parish, cathedral, or basilica.  Dressing modestly is a way to show respect for the Catholic wedding ceremony and the traditions it upholds. Women should aim for dresses or skirts that are knee-length or longer. Avoid low necklines, backless dresses, and high slits. If you have a sleeveless dress, consider bringing a shawl or cardigan to cover your shoulders during the ceremony just in case. A nice dress shirt with trousers is always a safe bet for men. Ties are great but not mandatory. When in doubt about what to wear to a Catholic wedding, just make sure your outfit is neat and not too casual!

Keep It Elegant but Simple

Non religious brides should already get more of the attention than any one guest. However, in a Catholic ceremony, the focus should be on the sacrament of marriage, not on flashy attire. Simple, elegant clothing allows you to look great without drawing too much attention. Wear something nice, but just not too flashy. A solid-colored dress or one with subtle patterns is perfect. Avoid anything too glitzy or sequined. Stick to classic colors like navy, grey, or black for men’s pants. A well-fitted blazer can add a touch of elegance without going overboard.

What To Wear To A Catholic Wedding – Shoes

Catholic wedding ceremonies often involve standing, kneeling, and walking around, so comfortable shoes are a must. Heels are fine, but make sure they’re not too high. Wedges or dressy flats can be a stylish and comfortable alternative. Dress shoes are ideal, but ensure they’re broken in to avoid discomfort.

Accessorize Thoughtfully

Accessories can look amazing with your outfit, but in a church setting, less is more. Simple jewelry and a small clutch or handbag will complement your look without distracting. If you wear a hat, make sure it’s not too large or . A nice watch can add a touch of personality to your outfit. Just keep it tasteful and understated.

The Season Can Affect What to Wear to a Catholic Wedding

The season can affect both your comfort and appropriateness of your attire. For spring and summer, opt for light fabrics. Pastel colors are perfect for spring! Just ensure your clothes aren’t too sheer or revealing. In the fall and winter heavier fabrics like wool or velvet can be both stylish and suitable for the season.

When Wondering What to Wear to a Catholic Wedding,  Just Ask!

It’s better to be sure than to guess and potentially feel out of place. If you’re ever unsure about what’s appropriate, don’t hesitate to reach out to the couple or their close family members. They’ll appreciate your consideration and be happy to guide you.

I hope these tips help you feel confident and respectful at the next Catholic wedding you attend. It’s all about blending elegance with reverence, and you’ll be sure to do just that. Enjoy the celebration!

If you’re reading this as the couple trying to find something to share to your friends and family, check out my blog about writing your own marriage prayer. And if you’d like to discuss how I can help capture the sacred moments of your special day, reach out here!